Working for House
Today I
woke up @6.45am mopped outside the house and put rangoli which is my daily routine
I can say my day starts with broom stick cleaning and mopping for rangoli, now
due to Corona additional work also added health cautious husband told we should
not allow maids into the house so l work for me cleaning / mopping house and cleaning
utensils. My helpful husband promised me he will help me in house
hold things which happens only accidently when I am angry with him.
Usually I woke up @ 5am as I travelled 2 days
before from my native to this Metropolitan city I am tired, in my native daily
3 hours I used to travel by car to construct the house in my in-laws place. I am
physically exhausted, my mother packed me some snacks and curries so that after
coming to my place I don’t go around cooking which saved me for 2 days.
Let me tell you about my family
we are 3 me, my husband and my ignorant aggressive son who is 9-year-old he
doesn’t know how and where to show his angry and get scolding’s from me for
which I feel sorry for myself. I never blamed my husband for his behavior I
don’t why I take all my sons negative on me even before any one says to me,
might be because he always stayed with me or my husband always keep saying it’s
all because of me he is learning to be angry.
Today, from morning I am observing
my husband routine he woke up around 8am that too I called up son to wake up he
might get late to walk, my husband face got a flash who is sleeping next to him
and woke up took around 1 hour to come out of room I was surprised to see he
took his bath, looking at my expression he told he got office call immediately
after walk so he got ready, my son also took 1 hour to brush teeth, they both
went to walk.
As usually I started cooking in
between I got call from my mom attending her call I started preparing chutney
as Idly done already not even 10 min completed I my two puppies (husband and
son) returned from walk, I cut the call of my mom as I need to work fast on breakfast,
I asked so quick they finished walk my husband replied I have some work before meeting
need to do I wonder doesn’t he remembered while going whatever I have to do my
cooking. Both had Breakfast, son started watching TV as he got Dasara holiday
husband rushed into room for office work. Immediately after breakfast I started
working on lunch because I need to sit with my son for his homework. In between
husband visited kitchen to drink water or for snacks while cooking I dried the
washed cloths those I put immediately I did rangoli outside, I need to thank my
washing machine without this my back would have lot of surgeries by now, even I
gave bath to my son as he never takes a clean bath by himself, washed utensils.
Lunch done house cleaned once again all set for the day.
My
husband came out for lunch and asked would you people like to have lunch, I am
almost tired and want to relax, not in a mood to have lunch.
I sat with my son with a computer making him to
write his homework and in between writing articles giving him breaks as he gets
strained to sit continuously in front of system, he never tells that when sits
in front of TV.
I set everything for my husband I cleaned
house, cooked for him, taken care of kid, taken care of his cloths ……… so that
he can work without any interruptions.
Whenever my in-laws questioned why I am not working
or how is he working without worrying he never mentioned, how I work for him all
the day to make him without worrying about anything…., how difficult to manage
a kid in a city without anyone around when he went out of India. Instead he
always kept quiet.
Whatever world might think I feel proud of myself
I am staying all day in house for my love they recognize it or not love never
excepts returns.
Not only my husband I observed many men keeping
quiet or even more comparing with their colleagues working ladies, I feel some
times to ask working women husbands really as tension free as my husband or
housewives husband be. Just bindaas from every house hold chore.
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